Classes and Courses

 

All classes are conducted with a focus on open communication, safety, Risk Aware Consensual Kink, and Safe Sane and Consensual conduct. Consultations are held at the beginning of each class so as to make sure you advance at the right pace for you. Individual classes usually run between one and two hours in length with workshops and packages taking up to 5 hours.

To learn more about any particular class, course package, or to get suggestions on the right classes for you, please contact me. Your discretion is assured.


mmesade@gmail.com


CLASSES


  1. •Spicing Up Your Sex Life- A gentle introduction to bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism for couples

  2. •Safety In the Dungeon- Cleaning and prepping your space for play, how to play RACK and SCC

  3. •Social Psychology of the Scene- Understanding the players and protocols of the scene

  4. •Role Play- Getting into character

  5. •Identifying Your Kinks (private classes only)- Can't quite put what you want or like into words? Sometimes it helps to talk to someone who knows what you're talking about.

  6. •Negotiating A Scene- Find out what they really want and if you’re really compatible play partners

  7. •Body Worship- Making sure everyone is satisfied. Learn how to use sensations to your advantage to titillate and torment your partner as well as the language best used to correct poor performance

  8. •Corporal Punishment- Spanking, flogging, paddling, caning, single tail, and more

  9. •Traditional Disciplines- OTK Spanking, slippering, caning, soaping, and more

  10. •Genital Torture (CBT & PT) and Nipple Torture- Cock and ball bondage, genital torture, pussy torture, nipple tweaking, and insufferable teasing

  11. •Intro to Anal- Proper training techniques and claiming the asshole

  12. •Advanced Anal- Manipulating the prostate to achieve multiple orgasms, accessing the G-spot through the anus, and fisting

  13. •Feminized Man- Explore sissification, cross dressing, full transformation, how to dirty talk like a true slut, and beginning slut training

  14. •Intro to Temperature Play- Fire and Ice, wax play, cigarette torture. Learn to play with fire in a way where no one gets burned.

  15. •Advanced Fire Play- Fire massage, fire spanking, making your own fire wands and kit

  16. •Edge Play- piercing, sounds, stapling, branding, and enema torture are just a few of the fun things we like to do that are under the category of Edge

  17. •Advanced Piercing- making it art

  18. •Bondage- Making bondage work for you, ropes, cuffs, scarves, tape, metal and more

  19. •Electrical Play- Violet Wand, PES, TENs, Electra Stim. Whether you’re playing with electricity for the first time or you want to explore more ways to incorporate it into your scenes, there’s an electricity class for you.

  20. •Mark-less pain- Mild to extreme punishment without leaving a mark

  21. •Masochism Training- Sexual Sadist creates Sexual Masochist

  22. •Punishment- Fun and Playful to Cruel and Unusual

  23. •Tease and Denial (couples only)- Learn the art of the excruciatingly wonderfully long tease

  24. •Humiliation and Objectification- Get fun ideas of wretched things to do to your loving subs, both in public and in private



Please contact me for pricing on individual classes or custom packages. Packages are discounted based on an hourly rate and cost of materials. Group rates and gift certificates are also available.


WORKSHOPS

For groups of 3 or more

  1. •Crash Course In BDSM- 101, 3 hour intensive- $130/ea

  2. •Artistic Needle Play, 3 hour intensive- $130/ea

  3. •Most Everything You Ever Needed To Know About Anal Play, 3 hour intensive- $130/ea

  4. •Predicament, 3 hour intensive- $130/ea




COURSE PACKAGES



  1. •Novice Kinky Couples Course Package- $350

Identifying Your Kinks, Safety In The Dungeon

Spicing Up Your Sex Life, Role Play, Body Worship


  1. •Intermediate Kinky Couples Course Package- $400

Safety In The Dungeon or equivalent experience, Intro to Temperature Play, Bondage 101-102, and two focus classes of your choice


  1. •Advanced Kinky Couples Course Package- $400-500

Safety In The Dungeon or equivalent experience, Body Worship, Advanced Fire Play, and three focus classes of your choice


  1. •Novice Top Course Package- $350

Identifying Your Kinks, Safety In The Dungeon, Psychology of BDSM, Negotiating A Scene, Corporal Punishment, Bondage 101


  1. •Intermediate Top Course Package- $400

Safety In The Dungeon or equivalent experience, Bondage 102-103, Advanced Fire Play and two focus classes of your choice


  1. •Advanced Top Course Package- $400

Safety In The Dungeon or equivalent experience, Electrical Play, Mark-less pain, Bondage, Genital Torture and Nipple Torture, and two focus classes of your choice



  1. •Kinky Professional Course Package- $300

Identifying Your Kinks For those who can’t quite put into words what they want or like, sometimes it helps to talk to someone who knows what they’re talking about. This class will be as much about identifying your personal kinks as a top, as what you would like to offer in your sessions.

Safety In The Dungeon Cleaning and prepping your space for play, how to play RACK and SCC

Psychology of the Players Understanding the players and protocols of the Professional scene is pivotal to maintaining dominance and peace in your space

Negotiating A Scene Find out what they really want and if you’re really compatible play partners

Corporal Punishment Spanking, flogging, paddling, caning, single tail, and more

Body Worship Making sure everyone is satisfied. Learn how to use sensations to your advantage to titillate and torment your partner as well as the language best used to correct poor performance

Bondage Making bondage work for you, ropes, cuffs, scarves, tape, metal and more

one focus class of your choice


  1. •Intermediate Pro Course Package- $300

Safety In The Dungeon or equivalent experience Cleaning and prepping your space for play, how to play RACK and SCC

Advanced Fire Play Fire massage, fire spanking, making your own fire wands and kit

Electrical Play Violet Wand, PES, TENs, Electra Stim. Whether you’re playing with electricity for the first time or you want to explore more ways to incorporate it into your scenes, there’s an electricity class for you.

Beginner’s Edge Play piercing, sounds, stapling, branding, and enema torture are just a few of the fun things we like to do that are under the category of Edge. In this class we start with the fundamentals of prepping and performing safe invasive techniques

Bondage Making bondage work for you, ropes, cuffs, scarves, tape, metal and more

and one focus class of your choice


  1. •Advanced Pro Course Package- $300

Safety In The Dungeon or equivalent experience Cleaning and prepping your space for play, how to play RACK and SCC

Advanced Fire Play Fire massage, fire spanking, making your own fire wands and kit

Edge Play piercing, sounds, stapling, branding, and enema torture are just a few of the fun things we like to do that are under the category of Edge

Electrical Play Violet Wand, PES, TENs, Electra Stim. Whether you’re playing with electricity for the first time or you want to explore more ways to incorporate it into your scenes, there’s an electricity class for you.

and one focus class of your choice



TESTIMONIALS




“Having recently returned to Professional Domination after a two year leave, I wanted to refresh, review and perfect my play piercing techniques. Yesterday, I took a private class with Sade, and I must say she is a gifted teacher.


She guided me through a complex piercing scene, all the while providing pointed guidance and constructive criticism, and introduced me to several configurations I hadn't previously attempted. By the end of our class, I had regained confidence in my technique and felt ready to begin playing on my own again.


She is knowledgeable, extremely capable, and a consummate professional- I highly recommend a private class with her for both Professionals and Lifestyle players who are looking to learn something new or take their play to the next level.”

-Domina Nyx




“Sade's classes are not a fast collection of jargon and actions that will provide students with a "kinky seal of approval".  Rather, they are designed to allow people of all different levels and kinks the opportunity to explore their own interests in a safe and social setting. 


What for me has been the most gratifying and helpful has been Sade's "if you can dream it, be it" approach to kinky business- students are not theoretically acquiring skill, they are actually doing it with people who are into it. 


She doesn't push everyone to adapt the same behaviors or design the same kink; instead, she watches very closely to see just where your mind is taking you and either encourages you to keep going, or interrupts for just a moment to correct an issue of safety or control. 


When she demonstrates a given skill, you can see that she is making the action real in that moment and not simply going through a motion.  By demonstrating delight in each lesson, Sade is teaching the best skill of all for both the novice or long-time Pro of the BDSM world....”

  1. -Mistress Rex




Why Mistress Sade?

My wife and I are new entrants into the BDSM world and although parties and workshops had opened the door for us, we needed someone to take us to the next level. 


When we saw Mistress Sade teaching a bondage workshop, we knew she was the one. We read her bio filled with contradictions but didn't understand them until she started working with us. She was always close yet when it suited the moment, it seemed as if she wasn't there at all. She was professional and educational yet lustful and passionate.  She was happy to take the reins or to turn them over to me, steering when needed. She was equally talented teaching us the mechanics of the scene and the emotions behind it. 


We walked away from each session counting down the time until our next. We've now finished our first series of classes with the skills and confidence to play wherever and whenever we want yet we can't seem to shake the desire to spend more time with Mistress Sade. Even with all she taught us, there is still so much more to learn and we know who we want our teacher to be.

Thank you Sade

-H C